“Keep the fights clean and the sex dirty.”
(from Secrets of Great Marriages/quoting Kevin Bacon & Kyra Sedgewick)
I don’t know if anyone can really claim the secret to a great marriage, or even commonly define “great,” but I’m certain there’s lots to learn along the way–about yourself, about life, about love.
For me the most important thing is to keep it real–and that takes time, and attention and courage. In 25 year of marriage (and 30 years of sex, love & devotion–in that order), Casey and I have discovered that our promises are less important than our willingness to take the risks necessary to keep growing–together–and apart.
Surprisingly there are few interested in that exploration so your company on the journey is particularly appreciated. Take a look around to find something that resonates for you, and let us know your thoughts.
Kelly Salasin & Casey Deane